Many of these CAN have exceptions, but for the most part, they don't.
Like... 99% of them don't.
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I will not date you if you...
1. Whine. About anything. Whining is not funny. It's not cute.
2. Talk too much about yourself and never ask me questions.
3. Can't cook. (And I'm not necessarily talking about all out gourmet chef style here - although I wouldn't complain about that - but just being able to follow a recipe and make it well.)
4. Don't want to have babies.
5. Do drugs.
6. Or smoke.
7. Or can't control your drinking habits.
8. Gamble.
9. Have no other hobbies besides playing video games.
10. Argue. (Especially with no valid reason.)
11. Compare me to your ex-girlfriends.
12. Act like sex is gross.
13. Are "fine with where you're at in life".
14. Can't take the role of leadership.
15. Are utterly obsessed with immature things, to a point of I-theme-stuff-after-this.
16. All you can talk about are cars.
17. Ask me for nudes.
18. Ignore me. (Whether you're one mile away or 8,000 miles away, whether you're home alone or hanging out with friends, if I can't count on you prioritizing me/us if I need you or we need to talk, then a relationship won't work.)
19. Have bad grammar.
20. Abbreviate a lot when you're texting.
21. Won't/don't want to meet my family.
22. Don't care about your family.
23. Or don't want me to meet them.
24. Say that you could live without music.
25. Can't at least try to like some of the things I do. (Or at least appreciate and be happy for me when I find joy in things. Because I will do the same for you.)
26. Picky about food.
27. Get uncomfortable when talking about periods.
28. Can't handle the sight of blood.
29. Don't care about eating healthy.
30. Don't want to travel.
31. Are constantly on your phone.
32. Are still in contact with your ex-girlfriends.
33. Are constantly ogling girls in public.
34. Don't realize your shortcomings and areas you need to work on. (I'm not saying you have to become a better person for me, but just know where you need to change for the better.)
35. Think that the birth process is gross or weird.
36. Can't have an intelligent and edifying conversation.
37. Don't have phone etiquette.
38. Don't treat all women equally and with respect, no matter where they're from, their lifestyle or their occupation.
39. Don't have a good relationship with the women in your family.
40. Cuss a lot.
41. Don't drive responsibly.
42. Don't have style. (A nice fashion sense, okay? At least know how to put on a tie.)
43. Talk obsessively about your workout schedule.
44. Don't have a career in mind or that you aren't currently pursuing.
45. Constantly complain about your job. (If you don't like it, get another one.)
46. Care more about the opinions of people on social medias, than in reality.
47. Don't give me space. Yes. S p a c e.
48. Are some whacked out control freak who will question my every reason for not replying to your text within ten minutes of you sending it to me. (I've had this before. No thanks.)
49. Constantly beg for compliments. (Whether verbally or the I'm-going-to-be-silent-until-you-say-something-nice-about-me)
50. Don't have a healthy measure of self-confidence and self-esteem.
51. If you are clingy.
52. If you act like we're already dating and tell me that I can or can't do this and that.
53. If you don't love Jesus, you ain't even in my sights.
54. If you don't trust me.